Your Personal “Complexity Reset”(Part 10)

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Skip to content Life Is Too Complicated Reset Part 10 of 10 ← Part 9 Your Personal “Complexity Reset” This final part turns insight into a system you can actually live with. Life Is Too Complicated Reset · Part 10 A calm system you can run without trying harder. You don’t need another plan. You need a way for life to stop asking so much of you. This final part is not about improvement. It’s about relief that lasts. A system should make life quieter, not louder. What a “complexity reset” really is A reset doesn’t mean starting over. It means deciding: • what you will carry • what your system will carry • what no longer needs to be carried at all This is not minimalism. It’s delegation—away from your nervous system. ...

The “Always On” Body (Without Calling It Anxiety)(Part 6)

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Life Is Too Complicated Reset · Part 6

Why your body won’t fully relax—even when your life looks calm.

You might not feel anxious. You might not feel stressed.

And yet—your body never quite powers down.

Your shoulders stay tense. Your jaw stays tight. Sleep happens, but it doesn’t restore.

This isn’t anxiety. It’s something quieter—and more common.

A calm-looking person with subtle signs of physical tension.
The body can stay alert even when the mind feels calm.

What “always on” actually means

An “always on” body isn’t panicking. It’s waiting.

Waiting for the next notification. The next decision. The next thing that needs attention.

Your nervous system stays in a low-level readiness mode— not because danger is present, but because something might need you.

This often shows up as small, persistent signals— shallow breathing, frequent sighing, or a body that never fully sinks into rest.

This is not a disorder. It’s adaptation.

A nervous system diagram showing a constant low-level activation.
Readiness consumes energy—even without visible stress.

Why rest doesn’t fully fix it

Rest helps when the body believes it’s safe to power down.

But an always-on body doesn’t trust rest. It treats it as a pause between alerts.

That’s why:

  • Weekends don’t fully recharge you
  • Vacations take days to “settle”
  • Relaxation feels shallow or temporary

Why this isn’t anxiety

Anxiety is fear-focused. An always-on body is responsibility-focused.

You’re not afraid. You’re available.

Your system learned that staying slightly alert helps you keep up, respond, and prevent problems.

Techniques fail not because you’re doing them wrong, but because your system still believes it needs to stay available.

Over time, that readiness becomes your baseline.

A body shifting from tension into visible relaxation.
The body relaxes when it no longer needs to stay on call.

Do this today (5 minutes)

  1. Notice one place your body stays tense. Jaw, shoulders, stomach.
  2. Name what it’s waiting for. A reply, a task, a problem.
  3. Tell your body the plan. “Nothing needs me for the next 20 minutes.”

This isn’t positive thinking. It’s updating the system.

The body relaxes when it understands it doesn’t need to stay on call.

If your body softens even slightly, that’s success.

What comes next (Part 7)

In Part 7, we’ll explore why rest doesn’t feel restorative— and what kind of rest an always-on body actually responds to.


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