Your Personal “Complexity Reset”(Part 10)

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Skip to content Life Is Too Complicated Reset Part 10 of 10 ← Part 9 Your Personal “Complexity Reset” This final part turns insight into a system you can actually live with. Life Is Too Complicated Reset · Part 10 A calm system you can run without trying harder. You don’t need another plan. You need a way for life to stop asking so much of you. This final part is not about improvement. It’s about relief that lasts. A system should make life quieter, not louder. What a “complexity reset” really is A reset doesn’t mean starting over. It means deciding: • what you will carry • what your system will carry • what no longer needs to be carried at all This is not minimalism. It’s delegation—away from your nervous system. ...

Decision Fatigue Is Not a Willpower Problem(Part 3)

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Life Is Too Complicated Reset · Part 3

Why making “simple choices” all day quietly drains your energy.

By the end of the day, even small decisions can feel heavy. What to eat. Whether to reply now or later. One more task—or rest.

If your energy drops later in the day, it doesn’t mean you’re lazy or unfocused. It usually means you’ve already spent more mental energy than you realize.

Many people interpret this as a personal failure. “I should be more disciplined.” “I just need to push through.”

But decision fatigue is not a character flaw. It’s a predictable outcome of how modern life is structured.

A long list of small daily choices surrounding a calm workspace, representing decision fatigue.
Small decisions feel light—until there are hundreds of them.

What decision fatigue actually is

Decision fatigue isn’t about big, dramatic choices. It’s about the volume of micro-decisions your brain processes each day.

Each choice uses a small amount of cognitive energy. Over time, those withdrawals add up—whether you notice them or not.

Decision fatigue often shows up late in the day—when replying feels heavier, small choices feel irritating, and even things you normally enjoy start to feel like work.

  • What to respond—and how carefully
  • Which option is “best” this time
  • Whether something is urgent or can wait
  • How much effort to give right now
  • What you should do first when everything feels important

None of these are difficult alone. Together, they quietly drain your margin.

A day timeline with many branching choice points, showing how decisions multiply.
Decision load increases long before you feel “tired.”

Why willpower doesn’t fix it

Willpower works best for short bursts. Decision fatigue is not a short-term problem—it’s cumulative.

Willpower used to work because the decision load was lower. What changed isn’t you—it’s the number of choices your life now demands.

Trying harder may get you through today. It won’t change how tomorrow feels.

If pushing yourself used to work and no longer does, that’s not weakness. It’s biology responding to load.

Decision fatigue is a systems issue

The most rested people aren’t more disciplined. They’ve simply removed decisions from their critical path.

Fewer choices. Fewer “should I?” moments. More defaults that don’t require thought.

Structure—not effort—is what protects energy.

Structure doesn’t mean rigidity. It means fewer negotiations with yourself throughout the day.

A simple daily structure with a few anchors and minimal choice points.
Energy lasts longer when fewer decisions reach your brain.

Do this today (3 minutes)

  1. Notice one repeated decision. Something you decide every day.
  2. Turn it into a default. Same choice, same rule, same time.
  3. Write it down. So your brain doesn’t keep revisiting it.

This isn’t about rigid routines. It’s about reducing the number of times your brain has to negotiate.

If this feels hard today, that’s okay. You’re not trying to fix your life—just to make it easier to run.

What comes next (Part 4)

In Part 4, we’ll look at why your personal life now requires more admin than your job— and how that invisible workload fuels decision fatigue.


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